There are two different thickness spacers available for the rear damper assy. One uses the standard studs, the other needs longer replacement studs.
Those who fit STI pink springs often buy the WAGON spec rears to give an even stance (WGNs are same rate, but slightly longer, giving a slightly higher comparative height).
So, maybe spring options are:
1) Investigate whether standard Spec B WAGON springs are slightly
longer than yours. Someone here with a wagon will have upgraded to coilovers and have them in the shed ?
2) Look at a
higher spring rate option. Eg: King springs standard height, maybe wagon spec again ? King springs have a reputation for being harsh, so they're definitely stiffer

. In fact, almost any aftermarket spring will be higher spring rate, and most brands list a "standard ride height" version, as well as a lowered one.
3) I was reading on a US forum where they discussed the visual bum sag on Gen IVs and someone referred to using two spring seats on the spec Bs. I haven't dismantled my spare rear set yet to see if this is viable, but it looks like the seat is a seperate part on the billie rears. It seems feasible. It would give slightly higher spring preload, but so would longer wagon springs. I believe more preload actually HELPS your "under load" problem, but too much destroys the ride, apparently.
To me, if it only rubs when there is load in the rear, increased springrate would be my preferred fix, but bear in mind that if you increase rear rate only, this will effect the handling balance. I'm inclined to think, a subtle increase will actually improve it (less mid-corner understeer) but be prepared. If you look at, for example, WRX to STI spring rate, they increased the rear rate by more than the front, from memory.
Of course, having done it, I'd put in a vote for STI pinks

, but it's a relatively expensive option.
30mm sounds like a LOT to raise it, tho'. That amount, potentially, changes your rear alignment geometry, and would require an alignment, possibly with camber/toe changes needed (adding to the cost).
I'm glad I read your thread, tho' . I just put 225s on mine, and wondered if I could've fitted 235s. Have you determined if it rubs inside edge, or outside edge ? I'm guessing outside, with the offset you're running.