I would be interested to know what the failure rate actually was with regards to how many 2.5 engines made to how many failed seriously under the warranty period. If there were design flaws then most of the time this comes up in the warranty period. It is quite well known that nearly every manufacturing practise uses the consumer to fully test their products. That's why during lifespan of the range of products, there are model variants or 'face lifts' etc, which improve on known issue's.
Manufacturing these days is a pretty consistent process, and it has to be to ensure speed of manufacture and reduction in warranty failures. As was mentioned before the unit is designed for a specific market, and whilst the product is used within that which is was designed for, and good care is taken of the product, the lifespan usually meets expectations.
Of course there are many variables which can't possibly be worked out to an exact science so selection of materials must meet certain standards before selected for a product so they can cope such things. One day we might fill with some contaminated fuel without realising it, and sure enough once it gets inside your engine, bad things happen.
The Subaru brand has been making these types of engines for many years and they will know intimately what they can and can't do. Unlike some other manufacturers in the automotive world where they have used several engine designs through the life of their ranges, Subaru have been perfecting the Boxer.
It is only logical that you can only push the limits so much before failure. I am sure some people have pushed the 2.5T further than most people thought possible, but in doing this have most likely upgraded almost everything which made it a stock engine!
So to answer this question posed... Anything will 'let go' if it is not treated with the right respect.... just like my waist line
