That second one I can believe - long term load bearing elbow. It's the passenger door, and passengers don't generally care as much about the car so always do things like brush against the plastic trim scratching it and constantly do the same thing causing stress failures (in the materials not the driver, though that is possible too!)
I had someone get in my day old car and immediately put their feet (and shoes) up on the dash. Why yes, it was a woman. And no, it wasn't in that way.
