Hi mate, I've just recently gone through this exact exercise so thought I'd share my experience. I ended up going for the Garage 88 dump pipe as a few have already recommended. I mated it up to an xforce centre/y pipe and bolted straight up to the sti quads
. There is a noticeable increase in low to mid range power untuned, and the sound is perfect in my opinion (with the exception of minor resonance at low speed).
I did plenty of research on this forum and obviously everyone raves about the phat dump pipes, so I ordered one. It is a quality product but the issue I had is there is no updated information about the dump pipe that is currently being sold. This is quite evident from a few posters in this thread suggesting that the dump pipe still comes with the 3 inch bolt on adapter. This is no longer the case (as I found out after receiving the product). The dump pipe now has a welded on reducer only (3 inch to 2.25 inch) to suit the standard subaru donut flex joint and standard rear exhaust. It is perfect for bolting up to the standard rear section but less than ideal if you are planning on upgrading the mid pipe due to the unnecessary contraction at the join.
Also, be careful with calculations on pipe diameters with the y pipe split. Two 1.5 inch pipes aren't the equivalent of one 3 inch pipe as you need to use the pipe area rather than the diameter
They're actually closer to a 2.1 inch pipe equivalent which is almost exactly half the area of a 3 inch pipe.
As you said it's definitely a good idea to taper the pipe when there's a reduction in the exhaust size, and the Garage 88 dump pipe does this well with it's 2.25 inch reducer. The problem is that when you have the 3 inch centre pipe you then have a very abrupt expansion from 2.25 inch to 3 inch which is actually worse for air flow than an abrupt contraction the other way.
If I had my time again i'd go for an xforce dump and mid, or a TCP dump and mid as I think the open bell mouth is the go with the vf46 and would prefer no restriction at the flex join. In saying that I'm happy with the G88 dump for now as I'm not planning on upgrading the turbo (yet
). If I was though I'd have to look at cutting up the dump to remove the restriction at the join, which is extra $$$. I think you're on the money with your thought on the vf52 and the side opening wastegate. It would probably benefit more from an exhaust splitter like in the invidia dump pipe.
Cheers, Joel