subaru OB 3.6 2011 audio e nav issues

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Hi, i'm writing from Italy , beacuse here nobody , also Subaru Italy and official agent , is able to give me some answer.

I'have a 2011 Subaru Outback 3.6 with the Mcintiosh audio/navi sistem , ( thats a model not very common here in Italy )
it's the single cd/dvd unit

There is, between the front seats in the "glove box" a 3 jack connection ( video/audioR/audioL) for esternal audio and video source, but ther is no a decicated I pod connection
Using this conenction , i can hear sounds and see video from IPod , but only volume is manged by the Mcintosh unit or from the steering wheel.
Do you know if ther is a way to mount a cable or some adaptor for Ipod , that allows to manage the I Pod information ( Artist, Album, Skip Song, Playlist...) directly fro the Mcintosh unit ( i've see lot's of post on the mcintosh with the adaptor for 6 cd cahrger , but nthing for this one )
I see in the web a cable to be link to the Unit with OEM nav, called H0018AJ900, is this cable valid with the McIntosh unit ?

Also , i've connected my Blackberry, via Bluetooth, and it works, but it's impossible to transfer the address book , when i try it , the connoection close itself .. ??

Thaks a lot for your support

Lorenzo Brambilla