^ would not have thought the stock steering wheel was mediocre enough to warrant $700 for a new one :O
i would go:
$1500-2000 TBE
$1000 new turbo
$130 fuel pump
$200 bov
$60 boost gauge
$1000 TMIC
$500-1000 tune.
$1200-2000 coilovers
$1000 new rotors, pads and SS brake lines
$200 short shifter
Save the rest for when you need to replace something like tires or services
Depends on your performance vs cosmetics view on life. I think this would get you a car around 200atw with braking and handling to match it. Which will be unreal compared to stock
*additional note, opt for second hand where applicable to save as much as possible. Just because you have 10k doesnt mean you have to spend it